Why I haven't blogged in a while!

Hey Guys!

So it's been quite a while since I've actually wrote something on this blog, and I apologize for not actually keeping it up with it.

Well actually the truth is, I've had quite a lot of my plate. With leaving school last year my life has been nothing but busy, busy, busy and more busy so I've had no time to actually even pick up my laptop because of these A levels.

Like all student's I'm sure we all have exams coming up, so busy times are basically ahead. I'm pleased to say that now, I'm actually able to balance my time between my work and blogging.

Since blogging is something that I enjoy to a large extent it would be a shame to be gone from it any more longer!!

I have a few blog posts on the ready which are mostly going to be revision techniques and also tips on making your next decisions for college and even university.
Since we all could probably do with some support from each other at this time.

Got anything to suggest to me?
Or any advice on how to improve my blog even more.
Simply just comment below.
Thanks Guys!!

Charlie Bear.

Be Your Own Person.

Charlie Here! 

 

Letting people control your life and always having their own say? Time you put a stop to it. It's your life nobody can tell you how you should eat, sleep or breath never mind live.

This is something, that's always been my main problem. Feeling like I always need someones opinion or advice on whatever I do, so that I avoid making mistakes.

But.

Isn't this where we are going wrong?

Isn't life about making mistakes and dusting your self off and getting yourself back up again. Not trying to avoid mistakes that form us as human beings.

It's just a thought. 

 

For a while now, I've been trying to figure out what's been making me so god damn unhappy. Then, I realized. Life isn't about being happy all the time. It's going to be like a rollarcoaster at times things will go up and at other times things will go down. It's all part of growing up.

 

Just something to think about. Do you think it's important for people to actually have their own say on your life? Or has it got completely nothing to do with them.

Thanks for taking time to read my blog guys!

Much Love

Charlie Bear.

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Having Self Confidence

Hey Guys.

Today, I'm going to talk about the importance of self confidence. Self confidence is extremely important it's involved in every aspect of our lifestyles. You'd be surprised to the amount of people that actually lack confidence including myself - it's like one big vicious circle.

I've lacked self confidence pretty much since I was a little bairn, for all yous who don't know Geordie language it means child ;).  Back on topic, after a difficult childhood I was always just afraid of people and couldn't stand the thought of meeting new people. In case, they ended up hurting me or letting me down, I just didn't want to get attached to anyone. I was a kid with serious trust issues.

Unfortunately its affected the way I live my life, constantly on edge, paranoid. I go all embarrassed when someone talks to me finding it hard to get like one word out.


Damn I've always got to be the one to order last in a restaurant because I'm too frightened in case I say something wrong and the waitress turns into a shark and bites my head off like a scene from Jaws.


 Here's Four Little Tips to developing your self confidence:

1. Identify your talents: Express yourself through this talent as it's a way of making you feel good about yourself. Instead of hiding this amazing talent you have develop and excel your interest.

2. Take pride jn your good qualities: What have you got that other people don't have? Yes that girl standing over there with the blonde hair and denim little shorts maybe be so 'pretty' but she might have the personality of a cow's arse you on the other hand might have a heart of gold, you might be friendly, caring even a good listener this sort of things make you special and you should be proud of them. 

3. Recognise your insecurities: You need to understand yourself to be able to start developing your self confidence. You need to know what's holding you back. But don't change that negative thing as the whole reason of learning self confidence is to accept yourself for who you are and to know that you're perfect the way you are. 

4. Talk about it with your friends and loved ones: These are people you can trust, they can help you find the root of your lack of self confidence and even help make you feel good about yourself again. They can help you figure out whether its something in the past, future or even now that's bringing you down.

What some people actually say about having Self Confidence:

 

Well I looked at two different views on the topic and they were kind of different from each other...the first view was a from a more theological view.    

Dr Ivan Joesph (Athletic Director):  "I asked all these parents at a university open day well what can your child do. And they said that their son/daughter was great at this and that. However their was one thing missing. Self Confidence. They didn't mention what I was looking for. Self Confidence is an important skill we're useless without it. Its the belief to believe in yourself no matter what to accomplish any sort of goal. I describe it as a skill as it can be trained and developed. There is no magic button, no simple solution to gaining self confidence."

 

Michelle Phan (Youtuber/Blogger): "Confidence is Latin for the word faith, there is no right or wrong to lacking self confidence. Confidence is like a muscle, everybody's born with the muscle its just whether they flex the muscle or not."

                            

In conclusion, it's not the end of the world if you lack self confidence. Everybody has a stage through their life where they just loose all confidence in themselves but its all about getting yourself back up and dusting yourself off. Reminding yourself about what makes you, you.

Thanks for reading guys, any ideas about what you want me to write about or if there's any advice you could give just comment or send me an email.

Much Love.

Charlie Bear x

Appreciating the ones you love.

Well, today I've had a wake up call...I've seen one of my loved ones hurt because I never realised how  much they've actually done for me. I haven't appreciated them enough.

Guys, always show your loved ones espcially your parents and the people who do loads for you how much you love them. Because it hurts them feeling unappreciated and I'm sure you wouldn't like it if someone did the same to you.

I'm not getting at anybody just myself...but I think we must stress how important it is, espically as theres many children who don't these days!

Just a tip of the day! and a note to myself!

Appreciate the ones you love always.

Charlie Bear!
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Anyone else hate spiders?

Some of you guys, spiders may not bother you at all...well they scare me. I am petrified of them unfortunately, the people that can relate to me who have phobias of spiders or simply just are scared of spiders know that they can be a pain in our butts.

Well, last night I got no sleep what so ever, my little sister Keira who's 8 years old woke me up saying she wanted a drink and I was so tired so I tried to see if she would go back to sleep if I pretended that I was in a deep sleep. Then all I hear is her little squeal "Spider!" and I thought she was just trying to get attention and then she said it again I started to become a bit paranoid.

So I look up and there's this really ugly looking spider crawling all over the ceiling, we played musical beds for about an hour as the spider couldn't decide which side of the room it wanted to stay on. Then she hands me a book and goes you kill it and then we played pass the parcel with the book as none of us had the guts to kill this spider and then we finally look at each-other and go let's just get dad.

So that was my night basically! 

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